How can I build trust while staying true to myself as I date with intent?

How can I build trust while staying true to myself as I date with intent?

Trusting someone especially a stranger with your emotions is no small feat, and it’s completely valid to have trust issues.

In fact, it shows you’re cautious, which is a good thing.

However, the key is not letting these doubts linger indefinitely.

Sharing some practical steps to build trust at your own pace as you navigate dating or search for your person:

👍 Don’t rush the process
Allow things to unfold naturally without pushing for a specific outcome.

👍Be practical, not overly sensitive
Remember, they’re a stranger and will remain one until you both decide to be exclusive. Keep emotions in check until trust has naturally developed.

👍Ask the right questions
If their responses are vague or unsatisfactory, don’t hesitate to clarify. It’s your responsibility to dig deeper and get the answers you need.

👍Manage text communication thoughtfully
Keep messages short. Turn off read receipts on WhatsApp and allow yourself the flexibility to respond in 10 hours or even 24 hours. There’s no rush—they’re not yet invested in you, and you don’t need to be overly responsive.

👍Focus on enjoying the interaction
When you meet, stop overthinking how they perceive you. Instead, relax, smile, and enjoy the moment. Meeting over an activity can ease the pressure, especially if you’re an introvert.

Remember: Trust is a process.

Trust grows gradually. Accept that both of you are strangers to each other, and take things one step at a time.

Above all, trust yourself. You know who you are, and while you’re a work-in-progress, you’re also someone worth believing in. Feeling good about yourself lays the foundation for trusting others.

At andwemet, we offer a service where singles can schedule a one-on-one meeting with Shalini, our founder in case you wish to take a session.