Ghosting is rude. But yes, people still ghost.
Let’s walk through a few real-life situations:
1. “We connected, they asked me for my photographs, I shared a few… and then nothing.”
We hear you. It stings.
But here’s the truth: While you’re amazing, you just weren’t what they were looking for and that’s okay. It’s not a reflection of your worth. It’s simply not a match.
2. “We chatted for days, everything felt great… and then silence.”
This is why we always recommend don’t text endlessly. 5–7 minutes, max. Then switch to a voice call. You’re two strangers trying to see if something clicks and text rarely carries real emotion.
Long texting is often a trap: it feels like connection, but it’s mostly projection.
3. “We met, everything felt good… and then they disappeared.”
Yep, it happens. You may have thought it went well — and maybe it did but for them, it wasn’t something they wanted to pursue further.
And while you might say, “Hey, thanks but I don’t feel a spark,” not everyone can or wants to communicate that.
Ghosting is rude. But it’s real.
The sooner we stop taking it personally, the lighter the journey feels.
Let other's poor behaviour not define your dating experience while you date with grace, and keep showing up — for you.
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