You’ve been on andwemet for a few months now. You’ve engaged in the community, shared your story, and you’re actively seeking your person. But no introductions have come your way yet.
If you’ve been asking this question and wondering why this is happening - most likely for the reasons mentioned below:
1. If you are asking. “I haven’t received any introductions since I joined.”
Do know andwemet is home to 1000s of Indian singles 30 & beyond who are looking for meaningful, committed relationships. But here’s the reality: everyone is busy, and not every single person will come across your details right away.
So what can you do?
👉 Take the first step. Don’t just wait for introductions to land.. If you see someone interesting, seek an introduction. Just like in life, if you truly want something, you work towards it vs waiting for it to happen on it's own without any efforts, which you are aware is rare.
2. If you are saying this, “I engage actively in the community, but I don’t get introductions.”
This one can feel frustrating. Having said this, your efforts are being noticed, but when people read about you, you may simply not meet what they are seeking in a partner. And that’s okay.
So what are your options here?
Wait for the right person who resonates with your story.
Search and initiate introductions with people you feel aligned with.
Remember: an introduction is not the destination, it is a start of something that may or may not be long lasting which means, you need to put yourself out there.
3. If you are wondering "Why are those you are being introduced to not working out"
Know this, finding your person is a journey, it is your decision on how to navigate it.
An introduction is like a mountain base and we need to be climbing to the top of the mountain by finding your life partner which required more than just introductions. It takes:
✨ Self-reflection and clarity on what you seek.
✨ Engagement and communication, how you manage is—over text, video, and in person.
✨ Acceptance that no one gets 100% of what they want.
✨ Not seeking perfection and respecting differences while ensuring your non-negotiables are met.
Every introduction is simply an opening. What you build after that through effort, openness, and patience makes all the difference.
The truth about finding love in your 30s and beyondFinding love in your 30s and beyond takes investment of time and effort. But if you are at it, if you keep showing up, reflecting, and initiating, if you do this, there’s no way you won’t succeed.
So don’t stop believing in yourself. Don’t stop taking steps forward. Because your story the one where you find your person may just be unfolding as we speak.
We at andwemet are rooting for you.
