Commitment-focused dating · Indians 28+

Not your casual dating app

Not your casual dating app

A private, curated community for Indian singles in their 30s, 40s and 50s looking for a long-term relationship — no swiping, no pressure.

A private, curated community for Indian singles in their 30s, 40s and 50s looking for a long-term relationship — no swiping, no pressure.

Why singles choose andwemet singles community

Curated Community
Human Matchmaking
Private & Judgment-Free
Commitment First

We don't let just anyone in. Every member applies and is personally reviewed, so you only meet people who are genuinely serious about a committed relationship.

You're never left to navigate it alone. Our team personally helps you meet the right people and stays with you through every step, the way matchmaking should feel.

Your details stay private and we connect you only with your consent. Single, divorced, or starting over — there's no pressure here and no shame, just space to meet someone real.

No swiping, no games, no endless matches. andwemet is built for singles in their 30s, 40s and 50s who actually want a long-term relationship — and are ready to find it.

Why singles choose andwemet singles community

Curated Community
Human Matchmaking
Private & Judgment-Free
Commitment First

We don't let just anyone in. Every member applies and is personally reviewed, so you only meet people who are genuinely serious about a committed relationship.

You're never left to navigate it alone. Our team personally helps you meet the right people and stays with you through every step, the way matchmaking should feel.

Your details stay private and we connect you only with your consent. Single, divorced, or starting over — there's no pressure here and no shame, just space to meet someone real.

No swiping, no games, no endless matches. andwemet is built for singles in their 30s, 40s and 50s who actually want a long-term relationship — and are ready to find it.

More about our singles community

More about our singles community

Curious what andwemet is really about? Hear how the community works, who you'll meet, and the stories behind the pairs we've made.

Real stories, in their words

"andwemet is so refreshing,  It shares a beautiful perspective about relationships and marriage. And reading other people's answers is genuinely inspiring and exciting."

— Community member

"I'd been searching for my person since I was 23, and finally met him at 34. I was one of the first few members. I got disillusioned along the way but never gave up and I'm so glad I didn't."

— Community member

"Overjoyed to share that my partner and I are getting engaged. I'm so grateful to this incredible community for playing a pivotal role in bringing us together. Here's to a new chapter."

— Community member

"andwemet did something no dating service or matrimonial app ever could. I'd searched for my person for four years; I joined at the end of June, and the rest is history. I'll be eternally grateful."

— Community member

"I was searching for someone within a 3–5 km radius with very specific looks. Instead I met someone wonderful who lives in the UK, nothing like what I'd pictured, and it turns out looks don't matter at all. My 12-year search has finally ended."

— Community member

"Thank you for including me in such a wonderful community. I've found my match here. We've met each other's parents and are taking the next step. The prompts changed my perspective and helped me so much."

— Community member

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FAQs | Serious Dating for Indian Singles 28+

Is andwemet only for Indians in metros like Mumbai, Delhi, Bangalore, Hyderabad, Chennai?

No. andwemet is designed for Indian singles 28+ across the country and around the world.

We welcome members from any city or region. Our focus is on serious, committed relationships, not geographic location, so professionals anywhere (in India or abroad) can join.

How is andwemet different from Bumble, Hinge or Jeevansaathi, Shaadi?

andwemet differs in its approach. Unlike swipe-based dating apps (Bumble, Hinge) that focus on quick matches, andwemet is a community with personal matchmaking support for serious relationships. It’s more curated and conversation-driven. Compared to traditional matrimonial sites (Jeevansaathi, Shaadi), andwemet doesn’t require upfront disclosure of income or caste, and it encourages active communication of personal values. We blend the privacy and seriousness of matchmaking with the accessibility of an online community.

Is andwemet a dating app or a matrimonial site?

andwemet is neither a typical dating app nor a classic matrimonial portal. It’s a unique community for commitment-focused dating. Think of it as a guided matchmaking service combined with a social community. There is no mobile app (yet) – members interact through our website – and the emphasis is on intentional dating rather than casual swiping.

Do I have to pay to join?

No. Joining andwemet is currently free of charge. We carefully screen all applicants, but there is no membership fee to create a profile or be part of the community.

Commitment Focused
Dating for Indians 28+

Commitment Focused
Dating for Indians 28+

Commitment Focused
Dating for Indians 28+