Dating fatigue? Maybe it’s time to redefine how we date...

andwemet
Apr 26, 2025
👉 Dating = getting to know each other
Not their dating history, not their zodiac sign, but them.
Not their 5-year plan, not their past, but them.
Not their Instagram highlights, not their ex stories, but them.
Not their LinkedIn profile, not their childhood trauma, but them.
👉 How?
By laughing over terrible jokes
By playing board games
By going for a trek, walk, a game of tennis or badminton
No judgments, no conclusions, just easy vibes in the initial interactions.
👉 But here’s where we mess up:
Judging texts like they’re Shakespearean sonnets.
Ghosting because their voice doesn’t sound like a rom-com lead.
Overthinking the first date like it’s an FBI interrogation.
Spoiler: This leads to dating fatigue.
So, maybe it’s time to chill.
Stop treating dating like a job interview and start treating it like a fun interaction.
Who knows? Your person might be hiding behind a bad first text or an awkward video call.