Dating fatigue? Maybe it’s time to redefine how we date...

andwemet

Apr 26, 2025

👉 Dating = getting to know each other
  • Not their dating history, not their zodiac sign, but them.

  • Not their 5-year plan, not their past, but them.

  • Not their Instagram highlights, not their ex stories, but them. 

  • Not their LinkedIn profile, not their childhood trauma, but them. 

👉 How?
  • By laughing over terrible jokes

  • By playing board games

  • By going for a trek, walk, a game of tennis or badminton

  • No judgments, no conclusions, just easy vibes in the initial interactions.

👉 But here’s where we mess up:
  • Judging texts like they’re Shakespearean sonnets.

  • Ghosting because their voice doesn’t sound like a rom-com lead.

  • Overthinking the first date like it’s an FBI interrogation.

  • Spoiler: This leads to dating fatigue.

  • So, maybe it’s time to chill.

  • Stop treating dating like a job interview and start treating it like a fun interaction.


    Who knows? Your person might be hiding behind a bad first text or an awkward video call.

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