Should men always pay or Is this entitlement in disguise?

andwemet

May 13, 2025

Should men always pay or is this entitlement in disguise?
  • First in-person meeting.

  • You’re strangers to each other.

  • You’re prospects to each other.

  • You may or may not meet again.

Shouldn't the tab naturally be split equally?

Yet somehow, even today, there’s an unspoken expectation: "It would be nice if the man offers to pay."

But why?

Why should the man, a stranger, be expected to foot the bill?

Aren’t both parties equally invested in exploring the connection?

We talk about equality… until the bill arrives. :)

Let’s not trivialize chivalry if he doesn’t pay.

Do keep in mind, you’re two strangers meeting to see if there’s a second meeting.

Focus on what matters, which is the quality of the interaction and let it be about splitting the bill.

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