Being liked vs. Being chosen - knowing the difference can save you from dating exhaustion.
In dating, you might be liked where they enjoy your company, admire how you think, laugh at your jokes, even compliment your presence.
But that doesn’t always mean they’ll choose you for something long-term.
Liking someone doesn’t necessarily come with emotional depth or intent.
It could simply mean they enjoy your energy, the way you show up but they may still pursue someone else.
It’s a bit like extended family you may appreciate everyone, but choose to spend quality time with just a few. That’s not rejection that’s preference.
We’re sharing this to help you understand the difference.
Because when we confuse being liked with being chosen, it can lead to unnecessary hope, disappointment, and burnout.
So if you’re unsure where you stand, ask:
“What do you see this becoming between us?”
You deserve clarity.
At andwemet, we recommend not investing emotionally until you’ve had a conversation about exclusivity.
It’s not about building walls, it’s about setting wise boundaries.
Being liked is flattering.
Being chosen is intentional.
Here is wishing all singles looking out to have their own 'andwemet' story.
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